June 20, 2013

Meet Judaica Artists Adaya and Michal Golan

Thanks to Mel Nathan, member of the JewishGiftPlace team, for this wonderful post!

The Judaica art world is a stunning and diverse place, including the work of such accomplished artists as Adaya and Michal Golan. Both are designers of unique jewelry, ornate with colorful stones and heavily inspired by traditional art.

Maya + Dina = Adaya

Adaya is the name of a collaborative two-sister team, artists Maya Reiten and Dina Twaig. Every piece of jewelry they create is crafted by hand in their Tel Aviv studio, with an artistry respected around the world.

Combining the influences of Art Nouveau and the ancient world, Adaya’s jewelry sparkles with glass beads, enamel, and Swarovski crystals.

Many of their pieces incorporate the Hamsa, a traditional Middle Eastern hand-shaped symbol, considered a charm for divine protection. This, together with the Star of David, often appears on Adaya pendants, easily recognized by the rounded curves and rows of colorful beads that line the perimeter. A large crystal is often placed at the center of a pendant, adding a bright focal point to the complicated design.

Byzantine and Middle Eastern Influences

Michal Golan is a New York-based Israeli artist who crafts jewelry influenced by Byzantine and Middle Eastern art, as well as that of the Victorian era.

A well-known figure in the international jewelry world, her work combines Swarovski crystals, semi-precious stones, freshwater pearls, and glass for a look like none other.

Unlike Adaya’s stone-dominated jewelry, Golan’s art gives the metal between the stones a place of greater prominence. Her gold and silver bracelets, necklaces, pendants, and earrings feature a wide range of symbolism, with not only the Hamsa and Star of David represented, but hearts, plant shapes, Hebrew characters, and the Evil Eye as well.

Unlike many jewelers, her work extends beyond the usual body jewelry to include ornate Menorahs and Mezuzahs as well.

The Jewish jewelry of both Adaya and Michal Golan makes valuable contributions to the realm of Jewish art, enriching the lives of those who love traditional symbolism and colorful accents all over the world.

Who are your favorite Judaica jewelry designers?

Preserving Our Stories

Holocaust Remembrance Day is April 8, 2013.

What helps us connect with our past, with our links to the Holocaust?

Personal stories resonate. Pictures linger. So how do we get to those stories, those pictures?

And for how many of us has time sealed off the option of asking parents and grandparents who are now gone?

Like me, do you promise yourself that you’ll explore more . . . when you have time?

Spur to Research

Recently, for our synagogue book club, I was caught up in Isaac’s Army, A Story of Courage and Survival in Nazi-Occupied Poland by Matthew Brzezinski.

The book description says, “Starting as early as 1939, disparate Jewish underground movements coalesced around the shared goal of liberating Poland from Nazi occupation. For the next six years, separately and in concert, they waged a heroic war of resistance against Hitler’s war machine that culminated in the Warsaw Ghetto Uprising.”

The title had me from the get-go. I was named for an uncle who perished as a resistor. And as I continued to read, I realized the high likelihood that other members of my family, or their friends, could easily have been involved in the specific actions I was reading about.

So I started poking around on the Internet, especially during moments when the story got so intense that I needed a break.

And I discovered incredible things. About a dear uncle’s heroic role in rescuing orphans after the war.  Here was an uncle I had lived with for 3 weeks as a teenager. I had no idea.

But it was my stumbling onto the Yad Vashem site that stopped me cold. I found a page called The Central Database of Shoah Victims’ Names.

I searched for my grandfather’s last name.  Then I scrolled to find him in the long list of people with that surname. And here was a Page of Testimony, completed by my uncle. In his handwriting. With specifics about when my grandfather, z’l, was born. When he died. Where he died. So much more than I’d ever known.

Jewish Genealogy Resources

If you, too, want to poke around and add some layers to what you know about your family’s history, here are some resources to explore:

Starting broadly online can be overwhelming. On amazon.com, for example, the keyword “Holocaust” brings up 17,293 results.

You can be more specific with searches here:

  • www.yadvashem.org   Home page description: “As the Jewish people’s living memorial to the Holocaust, Yad Vashem safeguards the memory of the past and imparts its meaning for future generations. Established in 1953, as the world center for documentation, research, education and commemoration of the Holocaust, Yad Vashem is today a dynamic and vital place of intergenerational and international encounter.”
  •  http://www.Jewishgen.org  “Our free, easy-to-use genealogy website features thousands of databases, research tools, and other resources to help those with Jewish ancestry research and find family members.” Here, I found the names of streets where my family lived, with photos of aunts and uncles involved in Jewish youth organizations.
  •  http://www.sztetl.org.pl/en/  “The Virtual Shtetl has been expanding rapidly, fulfilling our mission of promoting knowledge of, developing an awareness of and commemorating the history of Polish Jews.”
  •  http://www.ushmm.org/ The United States Holocaust Memorial Museum has rich and vast resources for teachers and students, with personal stories, photo archives and so much more.

Your Discoveries?

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And We Begin to Count the Omer

Spiritual journeyAfter the hustle and hurry and joyfulness of  Passover preparation and family gatherings, the Jewish calendar now gives us 49 days to engage in a quiet, deeply spiritual practice.

Counting the Omer (Sefirat Ha-Omer) refers to marking the days between the second day of Passover – when a sheaf of newly harvested barley was brought to the Temple as an offering – and the first day of Shavuot, celebrating the giving of Torah at Mt. Sinai.

      You shall count for yourselves seven weeks.

                    From when the sickle is first put to the standing crop

    Shall you begin counting seven weeks.

                   Then you will observe the Festival of Shavuot for the Lord, your God.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           – Deuteronomy 16:9-10

For more about the specifics, and some great resources, check out our 2012  blog, Counting the Omer.

Mindfulness Practice

In her recent article in the huffingtonpost.com, Rabbi Yael Levy explains that 

Counting the Omer is a 49-day mindfulness practice aimed at helping us pay attention to the movement of our lives, to notice the subtle shifts, the big changes, the yearnings, the strivings, the disappointments, the hopes and the fears.”

It is in this spirit that she is again providing daily practices for us to follow, along this journey.

I purchased her book last year, as well, called Journey Through the Wilderness: a Mindfulness Approach to the Ancient Jewish Practice of Counting the Omer.

Prayers & Background

To find the prayers to recite, with some of the rules that govern how and when you say them, check out this link from chabad.org.

Or, for a thorough overview of counting the Omer, this article from myjewishlearning.com does a great job.

I’m new at this Counting the Omer process. Last year was the first time I followed along.

Connection to the Harvest

And, as with most Jewish holidays that have agricultural roots, I am fascinated by that connection with the festival.  (Wish I could find the paper I wrote as a grad student about the agricultural roots of Passover!)

Imagine this scene, as painted by dailykos.com,

“Counting the Omer began as an agricultural ritual. People would go out into the fields each night and, just as they saw three stars in the sky, would wave an omer – a sheaf of barley –  to ask for a good harvest.”

I don’t know whether or not the power for me is in reminding me of my summer on kibbutz, where sustenance depended on a good harvest.

In any case, I’d better get counting.

Tailoring the Seder for Young Children

Miriam danced with her timbrelsWe’re planning to tailor our Seder this year to the youngest among us.

The little ones coming won’t be able to sit through a Seder that is even as long as our usual ones.  But they will enjoy some “big” moments, I think.

They are used to joining us for parades around the house, where we play instruments and march to the beat of popular tunes.

So I believe we can translate this to Passover, in the form of a simple re-enactment of the Exodus from Egypt.

Passover Story Re-Enactment

For the play part, we’ll need:

  1. A narrator (with a basic script) to tell us what actions to take, since there’s no Seder rehearsal!
  2. Boxes (like shoeboxes) to build pyramids and such.
  3. Rocks (or something that appears to be rock-like) to bake matzah on.
  4. Costumes for the Israelites with small bags to carry matzah and other provisions into the desert.
  5. A Red Sea that we can split.
  6. Miriam carrying her tambourine.
  7. Moses, dressed in a long robe (probably a bathrobe) and carrying a walking stick.
  8. Maybe a donkey to accompany the Israelites?
  9. More tambourines, so we can all play when we get through the Red Sea. I’ll put on a version of Debbie Friedman’s Miriam Song (about dancing with her timbrels) while we frolic in the desert.

For the seated part of the Seder, in addition to the usual symbolic foods, I love the idea of using mini-marshmallows as hail. I’m OK with sunglasses for darkness. And plenty of jumping frogs. But, this year, we’ll keep the boils, lice, and cattle plague under wraps.

Yes, we’ll use scallions as whips for pretend beatings.

The rest is, so far, a work in progress.

My goal, really, is to create warmth.

A friend reviewed our new 36-page downloadable booklet, “Celebrate Passover: How to Plan a Fun, Simple Seder.  She did a wonderful job of sharing what she liked and what we could change or add to be more helpful.  Like a photo of an already set Seder table. (Great idea!)

Focus on Making Memories

But this is the part of what she said that makes me remember why I’m doing this – what’s important for me and perhaps for you, too:

“What I love most of all, is your emphasis on creating memories. For some people, it is so easy to get caught up in the details of a Seder and not enjoy it. Or worse yet, get anxious that you aren’t doing something right. Everything you write is so comforting. Yes, I can host a Seder! Dinner at 9? Sure! Swedish meatballs? Why not?”

 Wishing everyone a Happy Passover – a chag sameach!

Celebrate Passover: How to Plan a Fun, Simple Seder

Seder planning simplified Coming up with new twists on our “usual” Seder is great fun for me.

I like adding a bluegrass song here. A play there. A few scallions on plates that we use as whips, reinforcing that we are no longer slaves.

Regardless of what I change up each year, though, I do a very simple Seder. Because that’s what works with our family.

Seder Planning Made Easy

If you are looking for ways to help plan an easy Seder, with more joy and less stress, then our new 36-page downloadable guide is for you.

It’s called “Celebrate Passover: How to Plan a Fun, Simple Seder.”

We’re offering the 3-part downloadable package – PDF + 2 MP3s – for $4.99 (with an introductory price of $2.99 before March 15th).

This guide will help you:

  •  Share 3 core Passover concepts with young children
  • Organize your Seder around the 15 steps in every Haggadah
  • Understand the key Seder symbols
  • Shop faster at the grocery store
  • Figure out what to prepare the day ahead
  • Set the Seder table using our handy checklist
  • Involve children during the Seder
  • Build anticipation for the Seder with the Family Discussion Guide

Free Audio Bonuses

The 36-page guide comes with two free audio components as bonuses:

1. A 10-minute overview of Seder planning, to help you wrap your head around the possibilities, before you dive into details.

2. A Passover tutorial – with how to pronounce a lot of the key Seder parts, including a practice part for you!  Learn how to pronounce the names of the 15 Seder steps, the 10 plagues, 8 of the blessings, the introduction to the Four Questions, and more.

Start to build powerful, positive memories this year with your family.  Buy and download this guide now to save you hours of planning!

3 Ways to Make Passover More Purposeful

Thanks to Nina Manolson, M.A.,  Holistic Health Coach, Psychology of Eating Coach, and founder of Soulful and Smokin’ Hot Mom, for this post.

My favorite metaphor of Passover is that of leaving “a narrow place” (Mitzrayim/Egypt, means narrows) and stepping into freedom. Just like birth, we have to sometimes squeeze through a tight spot to get to where we are destined.

Isn’t that the truth?!

How many times have you felt like there was a struggle, or growing pains just before you step into a deeper knowing of yourself, or a growth in your creativity?

It’s the nature of things, as we become aware of what limits us – and what constricts us – we also feel our deep need for freedom, and for change.

Passover is the perfect time to step into this process of renewal.  In fact, many of our Passover traditions reflect this idea of getting a fresh start. We’re supposed to clean our house – give it a nice makeover. We eat parsley and eggs to signify the coming of spring – the rebirth of the land. It’s all about stepping into a fresh start.

So, how about bringing that fresh start home to ourselves? How about Passover with a personal purpose.

Here are 3 ways to make your Passover more personally meaningful.

1.      Get clear on what your Mitzrayim (narrow place) is.

The only way to get to where you want to go is to know where you are currently. So, what’s holding you back? Where are you feeling enslaved in your life? Acknowledging the places that make you feel tight points you in the right direction.

2.     Incorporate habits and practices that support an inner experience of freedom.

Our feelings of freedom, of flow and fluidity, come from an inner experience of ease and peace. We can cultivate these feelings by stilling the constant chatter in the brain, and by steering our mind to positive thoughts. Cultivating a mediation practice, as well as a gratitude practice will foster an experience of inner freedom.

3.      Clean up your inner-house…your body

What we eat deeply impacts our sense of freedom and ease in life. Many of us are carrying extra weight, which makes us feel imprisoned in our body. Many of us are always either tightly controlling what we eat – or judging what we ate – which is its own kind of emotional prison.  As a Holistic Health Coach, I often hear how people feel like they are at war with their food and body, and ensnared in a painful pattern with their cravings.

What we want is a positive and healthy relationship with our food and our body. Passover is the perfect time to step into clean and healthy eating, so that we can walk into the freshness of spring feeling fabulous.

To support you in stepping into a purposeful and healthy Passover, I have 5 delicious and healthy recipes for you

And, if you want to have the support and guidance to truly use this Passover as a way to step into feeling good in your body and at peace with yourself, I invite you to join me for my online program:  “From Matzah to Mindful: 8 Days of Soulful Nutrition and Spiritual Renewal”

What’s the Right Seder For You?

About this time of year, I like to ponder who’ll be coming to our Seder and what kinds of extra festivities make sense.

Choosing A Haggadah

Probably the most important step is choosing a Haggadah that you like, one that resonates with you. The tone of the evening rolls out from there.

When you look up Passover Haggadah on amazon.com, there are 1793 results!

Our family has at least 10 different styles of Haggadot, ranging from super family-friendly to more philosophical to old-school traditional to pop-up. But we go back, year after year, to a Haggadah for young children.

Some years we amplify more than others.

What’s your favorite Haggadah?

Customizing the Seder

Can we add special songs (like the year we performed and sang our Welcome to the Seder song, accompanied by banjo and guitar)?

Can we add some splitting the Red Sea action made in advance with huge sheets of construction paper?

Can we pull out the play our daughter wrote about the Passover story, which is awesome? Do we have the right people for the parts?

Or, given the attention span of the group, do I mark through our favorite Haggadah and cut down to bare bones?

And where’s the balance between pulling in old traditions and building new ones?

For inspiration, I check out our Passover  Pinterest board.

Where I’m Leaning

Based on the crowd I think we’ll have – super mix of backgrounds and ages – I’m leaning toward:

  • Asking our youngest guests to help:
    • Set up the mini-seder plates that we put on everyone’s big plate, so that they’ll have a strong memory of what the symbolic foods are, like hard-boiled eggs, parsley, horseradish, and haroset
    • Put pillows at people’s places to show that we are free and can recline if we want to
    • Create heaping plates of maracoons and fruit slices and honey cake, so they can present them with a “ta-dah” when it’s time for dessert
  • Keeping it simple. So no Passover play this year, but yes to the Seder Welcome Song we wrote to the tune of “You Are My Sunshine.” That gets everyone singing from the get-go. (We pass out the words and the song tells the story of the Seder.)
  • Weaving in extras that don’t add much time (e.g., having tambourines, maracas, and other mini-instruments ready for everyone who wants to ramp up the Seder songs)
  • Building in ways for our littlest guests to get up from the table multiple times, so that they’re less restless (like having them walk around to each Seder guest with a bowl of water and a towel to help them “wash” for the second Seder step, Ur’chatz)

More pondering and decisions to come.

But it feels good to have started.

Where are you in your planning?

Celebrating Purim at Home

There are lots of Purim traditions that take place in synagogues. Purim carnivals. Purim parades. Purim costumes. Reading megillat Esther (the book of Esther).

Planning a Purim Party

We also love the idea of making merry in your home. If you have cooking-age children, here’s one fun way to bring the customs to life:

1. Invite your kids’ friends in the morning to bake hamentaschen, the tri-cornered pastries that look like Haman’s (the bad guy’s) hats.  A group of 5-8 is about the right size, so that everyone can have a kitchen surface for creating his/her own masterpieces.

2. Find a purimspiel (Purim play)* online that seems right for the ages of your children and print out enough copies for everyone (including one for you, as director). Here’s some general background info about purimspiels.  Choose a purimspiel that is short – just a few minutes long.

 3. Have a simple lunch, even one that the kids can help make: sandwiches (which could be cut into triangles!), fruit, fresh veggies. Or just serve pizza slices (triangles) with oranges sections (more triangles).

4. Assign parts and practice the play. You can have the kids bring costume bits or pull together scarves (as head coverings or shawls or capes), hats, belts, umbrellas (as a walking stick), and other odds and ends from your closets to create quick costumes. Keeping it super simple will help.

 5. Invite the Moms or Dads to come watch the play.

 6. Serve hamentaschen and tea/coffee for dessert.

 7. As people leave, help them pack up paper plates or bags full of goodies to give to their friends and neighbors as mishloach manot.

Do you have links to short purimspiels that you’ve liked? Please share!

*Purimspiel seem like too much work? Just find a few Purim songs or poems or stories and have the kids perform those.

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Hamentaschen in Four Easy Steps

Kids love the jelly-filled hamentaschen!I’ve often shied away from recipes that require rolling pins as too time-consuming. (I did surprise myself by successfully making the cutest dog and teddy bear cookies a few months ago. But I had a goal: to have cookies for some very special children to frost and decorate.)

For Purim, though, I see recipe after recipe that calls for rolling out the dough to a particular thickness, then using glasses to cut out perfect circles.

Sure, that’s an option.

But if you’ve been putting off baking hamentaschen – for yourself or with your children – because you want to keep the rolling pin where it belongs (i.e., lost in a drawer somewhere), do it the simple way, in four easy steps:

  1. Make small balls of dough in the palms of your hands.
  2. Press them down into a circle-like shape with the heels of your hands. 
  3. Add a little filling.
  4. Crimp the three sides together to form triangles.

Even kids as young as 3 and 4 can make their own hamentaschen this way!

This is a wonderful time to encourage creativity — new fillings, new sizes.  When our daughter was 8, she began to “specialize” in making tiny hamentaschen.  So fun!

*Favorite fillings:
Classic fillings are prune or poppy seed (mohn).  But kids often prefer strawberry, apricot, or other jams, as well as chocolate morsels.  Also super popular:  hamentaschen with Nutella!

No-More-Excuses Matzah Ball Soup

If you don’t have time to make soup from scratch, enjoy this simple version.

I’ve decided that 2013 is the right time to get back into the kitchen.

It’s been about a decade since I made dinner regularly. Embarrassing? Oh yeah. But true.

Early efforts this year have included keema curry with ground turkey, an avocado/orange/red onion salad on a bed of fresh spinach, mushroom soup with splashes of vermouth and dry sherry, and sautéed carrots and leaks with thyme.

Still, no recipe gets my attention for more than a moment if it takes too long. I’m just not there yet.

One of our daughters makes matzah ball soup every Friday night. When I hedged, she assured me how simple it can be – especially if I’m not starting from scratch.

Wonder of wonders: armed with a box of matzah ball mix and excellent chicken stock, I was able to serve soothing bowls of soup, as the flames from the Shabbat candles flickered and danced. Time from start to simmering: maybe 20 minutes.

I sautéed chopped onion in a little olive oil, added the broth, along with dill and sliced carrots. Then added the kneidlach (matzah balls).

So the message to me – anyone else who is tight on time – yes, you can!

(To those of you who’ve encouraged me to try making challah again, after my one failure in graduate school, it’s on the list!)

What have you learned or re-learned in the kitchen to enhance your Shabbat?